The moment
Ask what kind of attention she likes before planning anything. Some people want candles; some want a favorite cookie passed quietly between hands.
A useful detail
Let the game remain the game. A ten-minute moment can feel festive without making the birthday person host her own celebration.
Keep it human
A handwritten place card or a chorus of “we are glad you are here” may be more than enough.
Let the person be the point.
A gift is optional; a sales link never replaces a useful gesture.